What’s in a name? For one critical thing, safety

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By Faith Peppers
University of
Georgia

A network news show reported a Web site last week with more
than 600 photos of children who were separated from their
parents by Hurricane Katrina. Some are too young to know even
their own name. Others don’t know the names of relatives who
may be able to help them.

Workers from the Center for Missing and Exploited Children are
working alongside law enforcement officers to piece together
information to help find family members to rescue these
children.

It made me wonder: How much help would my own children be in
that situation? What kind of information should I make sure my
3-year-old could give authorities?

Don Bower, a University of Georgia child development expert,
offers these recommendations:

  • Be prepared. If possible,
    have
    vital information — names,
    addresses, medical information — written down and safely
    attached to children, especially preschoolers, who may not
    communicate well with strangers.
  • “In this situation,” said Bower, a Cooperative Extension
    specialist with the UGA College of Family and Consumer
    Sciences, “that wasn’t always practical unless you could put it
    in a waterproof enclosure.” Put the sealed information in a
    child’s pocket, pin it to their clothes or put it on a bracelet
    or necklace. Don’t have that information in public view.

  • Educate your child. By age 5,
    most children should be able
    to recite their name, address and phone number. That will help
    them work with rescue workers to contact family members.
    Because children younger than 5 may only know their caregivers
    or grandparents by nicknames like Grandma and Grandpa, it’s
    essential to have the information in written form.
  • Teach children, too, to approach people in uniforms — police,
    firefighters, military or EMS workers — to ask for help in an
    emergency.

  • Schools can be critical. If
    children can identify the
    school they attend, that can be critical information to
    identify them. School officials would have information to help
    contact family members.
  • Have an identification kit.
    Parents should have a kit that
    includes their children’s recent photos, physical descriptions
    (including easily identifiable marks like scars or birthmarks)
    and any medical conditions children may have or medications
    they may need.
  • “During the missing-and-murdered-children era in Atlanta, it
    became very popular to have your child fingerprinted,” Bower
    said, referring to a period in the late 1970s and early ’80s
    when 22 children disappeared in metro Atlanta. Many were later
    found murdered. “While there’s nothing wrong with having a
    child’s fingerprints on file, it shouldn’t give parents a false
    sense of security.”

    Connecting a child to a set of fingerprints and then back to a
    caregiver can be a long, time-consuming process. “It shouldn’t
    be parents’ only means of identifying their child,” Bower
    said. “You need a more complete system.”

    We should all know our medical status, no matter what age.

    “As we saw in the case of this hurricane disaster, there were
    lots of people, not just children, who showed up at medical
    facilities and knew they took regular medication, but had no
    idea what the medication was or what condition they had that
    required it,” Bower said.

    “If you show up without medical history or medications, it’s
    hard for medical personnel to help you,” he said. “It’s
    especially important to have this written down for kids.”

    My parents once got a Christmas card mailed simply to Artis and
    Neta, Madison, Ga. No zip code, no street address, no last
    name. My oldest child now knows the names and phone numbers of
    most of our relatives. But “Artis and Neta, Madison, Ga.,”
    could be my 3-year-old’s ticket to safety.

    If you have family or friends in the hard-hit area, visit www.missingkids.com
    to see if you recognize any of these children. The authorities
    and the children need your help. You can also contact the
    Katrina Missing Persons Hotline (1-888-544-5475).

    (Faith Peppers is a news editor with the University of
    Georgia
    College of Agricultural and Environmental Sciences.)